Form a good environment, so that family and school environment to become a child to develop good habits of support
What is a good environment and atmosphere?
Beijing city primary school historians still speak the case. The students have good habits of civilization, has close relationship with the good school. This school for apricot is very short, the first grade students will be able to grasp the hand, but no one pick the apricot. Now a persimmon tree planting apricot. In autumn, the big red persimmon bending branches, no one picked. Is the students do not know how to eat persimmon? Obviously not, Beijing’s children know that persimmon is very good. They are not randomly picked because there is a sense of honor, you do not pick is a good student, I do not pick, I have to do a good job of students. Good family is a good family environment, good school spirit is a good campus environment. In the end, the harvest was picked, the lower grade students, one of the two people, a high grade.
In the summer of 2009, when I was travelling in England, I visited the Churchill estate. Churchill manor. The exact name for the “Blenheim Palace (Blenheim Palace). And is located in Oxford County, the town of Woodstock, for a British World War II era strongman Prime Minister Winston Churchill was born here, and was people habitually called “Churchill manor. , known as one of the most beautiful and elegant baroque palaces in England.
Churchill’s family is very prominent, roots can be traced back to the glorious ancestor John Churchill. John Churchill is brilliant, fighting bravely, for the first time to get the civilian identity. Duke of marlborough. The title, won the attention of Queen Anne. In August 13, 1704, John Churchill led coalition forces, a call in the European continent. Blenheim. In the first place, the first time to beat the non – II – sun. The army of King Louis Xiv, the French king, and the captain of the French army, Tirard (Tall.), was a shock to the whole of Europe. Therefore, Queen Anne reward. Duke of marlborough. 240000 pounds in the construction of the manor.
I have the deepest impression is that Winston Churchill left eight. Artificial residence, residential building. The reason why Churchill has become a strong and unyielding man and his life in a family of heroes is closely related. We develop children’s good habits need to pay attention, we must form a good environment, because the environment of people’s influence is huge. For example, can not curse, the child if the curse, the whole family will not ignore him, and this is a good environment.
One of the students home, you need to become a literary family family. When children in the study, parents do not play mahjong. Some parents. Squelch. Playing mahjong, said. Son, a good study ah, admitted to Beijing University, Tsinghua university. Can he get there?
For example, you at home watching TV, South Korean TV drama a set then the second set see, endless, see tears Lian Lian, you said. Son, don’t watch TV, you must study hard, do homework. Do you say that the child can concentrate on learning?
You know some children this time how to do?? you are watching TV, he doesn’t dare to come over, but he wants to see, he opened the door a moment, erect ears and sharp, with ears to listen to the television, the more tired ah! So man is the product of the environment, this time how to do?? children at home as you can watch TV, or children sleep you watching TV, children learn when you’d better not watch TV. You are an adult can not control their own, the child is still small, he is more resistant to the temptation to induce.
Develop a habit is not a simple thing, but this is not to say that the habit is not up, the key is your ideas and methods to not in place. Our study found that the cultivation of good habits is the focus of the cultivation of personal habits at the same time, focus on the cultivation of social habits at the same time, focus on the cultivation of the wisdom of the habit in the cultivation of traditional habits, while focusing on the cultivation of the times. I suggest that the early childhood focus on the cultivation of living habits, the primary school stage focus on the cultivation of moral character, the middle school stage focus on cultivating the wisdom of habits, in particular, to develop life has a goal and a plan to do things.
Obviously, the cultivation of the habit is a science. What is the principle of customary training is to respect the child, respect for the child’s master position. What is the goal of custom culture is to develop good habits to liberate the child’s brain, so that children from some of the lower, the shackles of their own bad habits, the liberation of. Let’s try not to dawdle, do not fail to keep faith, some vulgar things. To make the child’s life is very interesting, very meaningful.
Twenty-first Century is the two generation of people to learn from each other, the common development of the century, the process of culture is also the two generation of people to learn from each other, common development process. Some habits for children than adults formed early, upsetting environmental protection, we must learn from the children, parents and children grow up together. And good relationship is better than many education, parents and children, the relationship between the better and more conducive to the formation of children’s good habits, so that there is affinity, the affinity of their teachers.
Habit determines the destiny of the child, the core of education is to develop healthy personality, the most effective way to develop healthy personality is to start from the cultivation of behavior habits. We take the behavior of the habit of cultivating this fundamental, we have the most effective way to seize the family education, which is the most basic task of our family education. Let us remember that this is a famous family is a habit of school, parents are accustomed to teachers, children’s education is to develop good habits, we have a good habit to create a child’s health personality.