Guide children to develop a habit of interest
The best education in childhood is to develop good habits. The so-called good child must have a good habit of children, the so-called problem of children are generally have a lot of bad habits of children. A bad habit may cause the child to lose a good opportunity, and a good habit may make him succeed.
I’ll tell you a story:
In 2003, the national graduate entrance examination of foreign language listening scores for the first time included in the total score. Although the foreign language exam in the 14:00 officially began, but in order to ensure the effect of the hearing test, the education authorities clearly defined. Candidates must be in 1345 before to enter the examination room, use this period of time to debug the radio and audition work, 13:45 banned candidates. The provisions in the examination discipline and ticket candidates are clearly stated, the media have repeatedly reminded in the exam.
The exam in the afternoon, a University of Shanghai city center, after 13:45 for 74 candidates. When the teacher told them not to enter, then 13:55 have passed, the students on the spot silly eye, this just think of spotted the textual research of the examination discipline that.
They said they did not see the provisions before, for the release of the invigilator. One of them continued to beg for the teacher. I have been preparing for this year’s postgraduate entrance examination for 3 years, I am very confident that the exam, the teacher gave me a chance. Another candidate wailed examiner be beneath the human character.
The late candidates for various reasons, some because sleep too much, some because eat late, the main is they are ignoring the “13:45 admission” this provision is said to many sites across the country have a similar situation occurred. It can be said: any of the students responsible for their own should not commit such a low-level error.
The people feeling things above tells us, everyone to do things need confirmation in advance of the habit, otherwise there will be, do not eat bitterness. For a student to develop beforehand confirmation of habit will benefit for life, for example, usually finish my homework carefully check, exam carefully examines the topic, agreed with the others things to keep in mind and advance the implementation of and so on. This not only the academic performance of students will be good, the way people will properly secure.
In the process of the cultivation of the habit, the timely example education, let the children to develop a good habit to produce a kind of feeling, but also to enhance the awareness of effective method.
Guan Ying Tianjin Academy of Social Sciences researcher has found himself hard to communicate with his son. In his son’s room, a lot of basketball star Jordan’s portrait, because Jordan is his idol.
Later, Janice always doesn’t like basketball, began to and son together to watch the basketball match, and collected a lot of Jordan’s story, this let the son mother to sit up and take notice, natural close up. Terri Kwan found that, as long as the son and son on Jordan, be sincerely convinced because he has a sense of identity, sense of kinship with the idol.
As a result, with the example of the power of Jordan, the whole family harmony, son is also becoming more and more lovely.
Childhood is an example of era and even Chu era, because the learning characteristics of children’s observation and imitation. Of course, I was not a child – models and celebrities, more is their partner. Therefore, parents and teachers can let the children choose their favorite celebrities or outstanding partners to do an example. As long as they are found to have some good habits and guidance, will have a huge impact on their children.
Some people will ask, what is the habit of habit is a habit of behavior, is a stable behavior of automation, is the language, behavior, thinking and so on.
Educator Ye Shengtao said that education is to cultivate the habit. Russian educator Ushinski said more profound more image of good habits is people stored in the nervous system of the capital, the capital will continue to increase in long, one life can enjoy the interest rate. And bad habits is morally unable to repay the debt, the debt can to growing interest to torture people, make the person best initiative failed, and the others to the point of moral bankruptcy.