Consistent behavior training, so that children from the passive to active and then automatically
According to Rasy, an American psychologist, behavioral psychology, behavioral psychology believes that a behavior will become accustomed to repeat 21 days, 90 days of repeat will form a stable habit. That is to say, the initial formation of a habit takes 21 days, while the formation of a stable habit takes 90 days. Of course, this is just a general concept. According to our study, the formation of different behavior habits, the formation of the time is not the same, in short, the longer the time to adhere to the more customary.
To give an example, the child needs to be trained not to wash their hands when they wash their hands. Did you wash your hands?. You always ask the child, but also the old to see the child, the child is slowly getting used to, and then do not have to remind him of the. As is now our adult morning to wash your teeth, but also to remind you not to do, it is a habit to develop a habit to become a stable automation behavior.
Our study found that there is a habit of the formation of a passive to active and then to the automatic process, so it should be a long training. Parents are very clear, small children easily misplacing things up in the morning and asked,. My socks, my shoes?. Turn the box to find something to have. This is not a habit to put all kinds of items in a fixed position.
I suggested that parents take a way, so that the child began to develop some good habits from childhood. Such as the evening before going to sleep, the clothes stacked, put the shoes on, they are placed in a fixed position, the school bag to go to school in order to organize a good order. The child will not start, parents can guide, demonstration, and then let the children learn to be messed up. The child is often very interested, like soldiers, quilts neatly.
To cultivate a habit requires perseverance, but the beginning of a month is the critical period. After this month, the child will be able to develop the habit. So that a lot of good habits are so step by step training.